Ch17 · Past the Freeze

"I want to switch off, completely let go and lose all the thoughts in my head — but I can't, I'm so uptight, so bored and frustrated all at once." If you've felt that on top, you're not unusual. You're describing the single most common block women report in this position. The in-head clamp. The wanting-to and the can't, in one body, at the same time.