Here is the single highest-value move in the entire loop β and it costs one sentence.
(This chapter speaks to the man.)
A woman can build a man's hardness the way she'd build any skill β on purpose, ahead of time, as a thing she does rather than a thing she waβ¦
The one true complaint about this position is that it's tiring. And it's only as tiring as you make it by fighting it. Two things turn the bβ¦
Most of this book is about pleasure. This page is about a real injury β because the same things that make this position powerful also make iβ¦
There's a quiet irony men bring into this position, and a quiet disappointment women carry out of it β and they're the same fact seen from tβ¦
When a woman is always almost β riding well, climbing, never quite cresting β she usually blames her own body. Nine times out of ten the reaβ¦
The best thing a man can do in this position is almost nothing β and it's so counter-intuitive that most men get it exactly backwards. They β¦
On top, your hands are busy and your hips are working β but your mouth is free. That makes the voice the loudest channel the charge has. In β¦
"I want to switch off, completely let go and lose all the thoughts in my head β but I can't, I'm so uptight, so bored and frustrated all at β¦